im the only one of my friends that have had sex. and none of them know about it. im only 14 and i know i shouldn't have had sex in the first place. but besides that, everytime me and my friends talk about "how far we got" or "my first time" i can't tell them how far i got, or how i want my first time. because they're the girls that are very judgemental, and think everyone who has ever lost there virginity before they're married are sluts and/or whores. and they all say that they're waiting until they're married, but it's not that easy, i wish they could understand that there is pressure and temptation, and guys WILL actually say anything to have sex with you. they will PRETEND to love you. i wouldn't go back and change that fact that im not a virgin anymore, because it was a lesson to learned from. all im saying is that having sex before marriage doesn't make you a slut, a whore, easy, or anything like that.