“My parents do not approve of my co-ed friendships and that is the BIGGEST argument in the house. When a guy calls the house, it's like the apocalypse!”
—Sadia, 17, Washington, D.C.
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“My parents do not approve of my co-ed friendships and that is the BIGGEST argument in the house. When a guy calls the house, it's like the apocalypse!”
—Sadia, 17, Washington, D.C.
What is child abuse?
Child abuse is when an adult physically, sexually or emotionally hurts a child.
Here are the major forms of child abuse:
Physical abuse - Any non-accidental injury to a child. This includes hitting, kicking, slapping, shaking, burning, pinching, hair pulling, biting, choking, throwing, shoving, whipping, and paddling.
Sexual abuse - Any sexual act between an adult and child or teenager. This includes fondling, penetration, intercourse, exploitation, pornography, child prostitution, group sex, oral sex, or forcing a child or teen to watch sexual acts.
Neglect - Failure to provide for a child's physical needs. This includes not providing enough food or appropriate clothes for the weather. It can mean a lack of supervision or housing, abandoning a child or denying a child medical care.
Emotional abuse - Any attitude or behavior that hurts a child's mental health or growth. This includes yelling, screaming, name-calling, shaming, telling them they are "bad, no good, worthless" or "a mistake." It also includes failing to provide affection and support that children need to grow into healthy adults. This includes ignoring a child, never hugging, praising, or showing affection.
personal experiance
Posted by: shahaku on Jul 13th, 2007 9:50pm
my family never new what happened to me, but a friend of the
family started to touch me while his sister babysat me, i
didn't know what her was doing but it felt good so i didn't
say no, now i feel like it was my fault because i didn't say
no but i also know that i didn't understand at the time so
it wasn't just my fault however it is still hard to talk
about it and i still can't tell my family and because of
that one incident there are times when i freak out because
people touch me unexpectedly
personal experience: response
Posted by: StacieS on Jul 17th, 2007 12:06pm
It is understandable that it is really hard to talk to your
family about what happened. For now, I encourage you to talk
to a counselor about it. They can help you better understand
your feelings about this complicated and painful experience
and also help you find a way to talk to your mom or dad so
that it isn't overwhelming. BTW - it is really normal for
people who were abused as kids to have both feelings of
pleasure and horror about their abuse. These exeriences can
be incredibly confusing.