RE: I'M really not sure.

Posted by: DanR on Jun 12th, 2008 9:59am

No, there is nothing wrong at all. Many times, the bleeding
associated with having sex for the first time is due to the
hymen breaking. The hymen is a thin piece of tissue that
partially covers the vaginal opening. However, for many
girls, the hymen is broken before having sex for any number
of reasons which can include using a tampon or riding a
bike. It has nothing to do with the size of your ex
boyfriend's penis.

I'M really not sure.

Posted by: chebaby1991 on Jun 10th, 2008 11:12am

When i first had sex i didnt bleed . it hurt and i know im
not a virgin but did my ex bf do something wrong ? does it
mean his penis wasnt big enough ?

i've

Posted by: selena! on Apr 15th, 2008 10:17pm

ive had and recieved oral sex many many many times. the
problem is ive also had sex before. im not im shame of it
even tho i shud be because im only 14. ive been having sex
and oralsex for about 5 years now. the point is if you think
certin things are gonnd make you not a virgin then think
extra hard about doing it! do what will not become a regret.
also my probem was i was doing stuff with guys i didnt like.
watch out for your self

RE: How do I know?

Posted by: DanR on Feb 28th, 2008 1:00pm

Many people associate the breaking of the hymen with sexual
intercourse, but the truth is, your hymen may have been
broken before you ever had intercourse. Simple things like
masturbation or using a tampon can also cause the hymen to
break. To find out for sure, you can ask your doctor or
gynecologist during your next appointment. You can also use
your own finger to examine the opening of your vagina for a
thin membrane or use a mirror to check it out yourself, but
that can be difficult.

How do I know?

Posted by: icheerlead6 on Feb 23rd, 2008 11:52pm

I've had sex and it hurt, but not as bad as everyone said it
would. I don't know, but when I had sex, I didn't bleed. How
exactly do you know if your hymen is broken?

Interesting

Posted by: Zirtavia on Jan 6th, 2008 5:36pm

Some people have thought me odd, but I don't truly believe
myself to be a virgin anymore because I've been giving and
receiving oral for several years now--but not vaginal yet. I
have had incredibly intimate, loving, sexual relationships,
love to talk about sex, and therefore don't feel like a
virgin. So it's kind of a complicated answer when people my
age ask if I'm a virgin; I usually say "It depends on what
you believe a virgin to be." Sex is so interesting XD

wat about not bleedin': Response

Posted by: StacieS on Oct 17th, 2007 12:16pm

Not all girls bleed when they have sex for the first time.
Most girls break or stretch their hymens way before they are
sexually active by using tampons and doing rigorous sports
like bike riding or soccer. The label "virgin" is actually
quite personal. People define it in different ways for
themselves. The blood does not need to define you as a
virgin or non-virgin. *Make sure that whatever you do
sexually is safe and ok with you and your partner. That is
much more important than a label.*

wat about not bleedin'

Posted by: mgray69 on Oct 17th, 2007 1:47am

I have had sex numerous times with my bf..and i haven't bled
yet

Am I...???

Posted by: love_yah1 on Oct 2nd, 2007 4:23pm

I BELIVE IM NOT BECAUSE I BELIVE IF A PENIS ENTERS A FEMALE
VIGINA THEN YOU NO LONGER IS A VIRIN. aND I LOST MY
VIRGINITY ABOUT AT THE AGE OF 13 IT SEEMS YOUNG BUT I
BELIVED I WAS READY AND STILL THINK I WAS!

Am I??: Response

Posted by: StacieS on Aug 31st, 2007 2:45pm

Yes. Many rape survivors claim a secondary virginity for
themselves. I suggest talking with a therapist about the
rape and how to create a safe environment for yourself to
experience wonderful, loving sex when YOU decide that is
what you want. There are also excellent books available to
rape survivors, such as:
www.rainn.org/what-should-i-do/books-suggested-by-survivors.
html and www.healthysex.com/