Many people want to know if they’re still virgins after they have done this or that. But the truth is, different people define virginity in different ways. The important thing is to stay true to yourself. That means taking your time to make decisions about sex that are best for you – not anyone else. Base these decisions on your own beliefs, values and feelings.

Try to worry less about labeling and more about what’s important to you. If there are sexual things you want to “save” until you’re older or married, then set limits and stick to them.