I'm gay/trans and have been harassed in school. What can I do?

In a perfect world, people would accept each other for who they are. But the reality is that many people do not accept lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people because they are not educated about it or are uncomfortable with something they’re not used to. Unfortunately, this plays out in lots of places, including school. It can be called different things including harassment, bullying and teasing.

Students who experience harassment in school often feel very isolated and are afraid to tell anyone what’s happening. They may feel like they will be further harassed if they “tattle” or may not want to tell people because it’s embarrassing. Some students stop going to school because they think it’s the only way to avoid the harassment. This can affect learning, grades and social relationships. This is why it’s important to tell someone.

It’s never okay to harass another person. No one has the right to hurt another person, emotionally or physically. And no one should be discriminated against because of race, gender, age, physical abilities, sexual orientation or any other part of their identity.

Think through all the adults you know who support you, pick one and tell them what’s happening at school. Legally, it is the school’s responsibility to create an environment where everyone can get an education and where no one is harassed.

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