“I don't think I've ever heard my mom say the word ‘sex' before. Then she tells me I could tell her anything, and I shouldn't keep secrets from her. It makes me so mad!”
—Jennifer, 16
What is the female G-Spot, and how do I find it?
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Imagine that when you put your fingers inside a woman there is a clock inside: pressing toward her pelvic bone is 12:00, pressing down toward her anus is 6:00. The G-Spot on most women is at 12:00. It is only about an inch inside the entrance to the vagina, and the skin feels soft and uneven, like a sponge. The tissue usually swells a little during intense stimulation.
Some say that rubbing this spot feels really good and may also give them an orgasm or ejaculation, or both. That is, when some women feel sexually excited, they spray a fluid out of the urethra--not urine--during orgasm. (Relax! You aren't peeing!)
Not every woman likes G-Spot stimulation and many women don't ejaculate. Some women never experience orgasm this way.
This is a great opportunity for communication with your partner. Since each woman likes to be touched in a different way, this is a chance to talk about what exactly feels good, such as the place you are touching, the pressure, and the length of time. Most people would agree that communication is the gateway to pleasurable sexual experiences.
By the way--men also have a "male G-Spot," called the prostate. You can more information on the prostate through our Sex Terms section.
Your Comments
fingering
Posted by: knowingandlearning on Aug 9th, 2008 1:24pm
i want to try to finger myself, but not sure how. i have
extremely long nails, should I cut them? I also don't know
how. Like, how many fingers do I use, and how to find my
clitoris. i know where it's supposed to b but can't find it.
HELP!!
hmm....
Posted by: twinaces on Jul 29th, 2008 2:46pm
""Not every woman likes G-Spot stimulation and many women
don't ejaculate. Some women never experience orgasm this
way.""
Not true...as most women who have not experienced
something like that will most likely tend to enjoy it.
RE: Question
Posted by: DanR on Jun 30th, 2008 2:19pm
That is definitely a possibility. There are a couple
reasons sex can hurt, the most common being lack of
lubrication. Another reason sex can hurt is if your muscles
are tight and tense. This can happen if you are nervous or
scared. If you notice that happening, just relaxing should
help. It is important to communicate with your partner when
this happens so they know what is happening and do not hurt
you further. Sex should be enjoyable, not painful.
Question
Posted by: 414mandy on Jun 29th, 2008 12:39am
Okay..I see everyone here just puts their questions out
there..so I am too. When my partner and I have sex..There
has been like twice that it really hurts..Is it that he is
pushing too hard?
RE: so yeah....
Posted by: DanR on Jun 16th, 2008 12:34pm
Depending on the positions that you have sex in, if your
partner is putting pressure on your bladder, that may be
what is causing you to feel like you have to pee. The other
possibility is that sometimes when a woman is having sex,
she may secrete fluids. This is sometimes referred to as
female ejaculation (even though it is not semen like a male
secretes), and many women say that when this happens it
feels like you have to urinate. I hope that helps!
so yeah....
Posted by: yes_no on Jun 13th, 2008 10:27am
I orgasm best in certain positions, but sometimes in those
positions i feel like i have to pee, even if i went to the
bathroom before having sex. how do i know if the feeling is
pee or a strong orgasm? do i stop holding it and try it?
RE: question
Posted by: DanR on Jan 8th, 2008 2:22pm
Great question! Since no two male or female bodies are
exactly the same, there is no specific match that can be
made for different penises in different vaginas. Remember
that a baby would exit a mother through the vagina, so it is
very elastic (stretchy) and is made to adjust. Because of
people's different physical features, certain people can be
a better match for each other then others, but there is no
definite fit.
question
Posted by: uncertainfreak on Dec 28th, 2007 1:56am
okay this a weird question and i know a lot of girls what to
know to... Is there a certain size penis that fits in
different vaginas? i mean like the width and length of it?
a few questions: response
Posted by: StacieS on Sep 24th, 2007 12:31pm
Is it possible to pee when you have an orgasm? It is
possible for women to pee, but it isn't very common. Often,
women ejaculate from their urethra and think that they are
peeing. Is it strange that rubbing my g-spot didn't feel
great? It isn't strange at all. And what's the difference
from getting wet when you're horny and having an
orgasm/ejaculating? Getting wet means that your vagina is
releasing lubrication; it is slippery. Ejaculation is watery
and is released all at once from the urethra.
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RE: fingering
Posted by: DanR on Aug 11th, 2008 12:25pm
When it comes to pleasuring yourself...there is no right or
wrong way. It is all a matter of what feels good to you. I
would suggest being careful with sharp objects (like your
fingernails) as the walls of the vagina can be scratched by
them. I have 2 resources for you. One is an FAQ on our
site about masturbation: http://www.sexetc.org/faq/sex/675.
The other is on teenwire.com.
http://www.teenwire.com/interactive/diagrams/do-20030930-dia
g01.php. There are diagrams of the anatomy here.