If I carry a condom do I look like a player or a slut?

The majority of teens at Sex, Etc. said that both females and males look "smart" when they carry a condom on a date!  We ran some polls about this question on our Sexetc.org. Here are the results:

 
Over 2,200 readers took our poll on guys who carry condoms on a date, and this is what they thought:


  • 38 percent of our readers said they think he looks "smart and prepared."
  • 30 percent said that they thought he looked like he was "expecting to have sex."
  • 25 percent of readers said they think he looks like a player.
  • 7 percent through he looked like he was trying to look cool.

The next week over 2,600 readers took our poll on when a girl carries a condom on a date and this is what they thought:

  • 54 percent of readers said that she looks "prepared for anything, and smart, too!"
  • 31 percent said they think she looks "definitely willing to have sex."
  • 10 percent said they think she looks like a slut.
  • 5 percent said that she looks like she's trying to be cool.

As you can see, not everyone is letting go of old stereotypes about what a girl or guy looks like when they carry a condom. You can avoid misunderstandings by talking about protection openly and spending time getting to know each other first.

You can also encourage others to carry condoms (and soon there'll be a condom revolution!) Here are some cool ways to carry a condom:

  • Just for one night you can carry a condom in your wallet or purse (all the other nights, store condoms in a cool dry place).
  • Buy a cool condom case to safely carry condoms
  • Buy a cute key chain to safely carry condoms

To figure out how to talk to partner about using a condom, click here.

Your Comments

wow!

Posted by: flaca_7 on May 1st, 2008 12:15pm

well yea i c what this article is saying!!! wel me i never
carry a condom cuz im still a virgin but if i wasnt i would
always carry jus in case!! u never know

Yes its ok

Posted by: iloveBlake on Feb 22nd, 2008 6:08pm

its okay to cary one on you you never know when you'll need
one, i always keep atleast 1-2 on me, just in case, so hwo
cares what ppl say

protection...

Posted by: garriejo21 on Aug 7th, 2007 4:53pm

i ALWAYS have two condoms on me at the very least. cause you
NEVER know when you or a friend will need one. a lot of my
friends (girls as well as guys) have started carrying
condoms on them at all times too. i would rather have some
random person who doesnt know me think i was a slut, than
end up pregnant or with an STD...

What I always Say.

Posted by: shewantsknowledge on Jul 18th, 2007 5:53pm

I believe its better to have one and not need it. than to
need it and not have it.

Rumors W/ condoms

Posted by: Breezyluvsu on Jul 13th, 2007 1:47pm

I went to the movies with my bf and a few of my friends and
his. And He carried a condom, then i guess someone went
round school and said that i was planning on having sex with
him! I was sooo miserable that day.

EEm

Posted by: odette1989 on Mar 15th, 2007 9:26pm

Well carrying a condom in my opinion is a good thing your
always ready for the unexpected...but chea if you got chea
head on rite no needs to carry a condom around...you know i
am rite lol

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