“I am not sexually active with anyone else, so I might as well be active with myself when I feel the need to have sex.”
—Nicole, 19, SC
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“I am not sexually active with anyone else, so I might as well be active with myself when I feel the need to have sex.”
—Nicole, 19, SC
If I go to to the gynecologist for birth control do I have to take my clothes off?
Birth Control
Posted by: ellemich on Nov 8th, 2007 3:41pm
About a year ago I went to Planned Parenthood and got a
year's prescription for birth control but chose not to have
a pelvic exam because I hadn't been having sex for that
long. The doctor told me when I came back to get another
prescription I would be forced to have a pelvic exam but I
really don't want to have one because I know I'll be really
uncomfortable but I don't want to stop taking birth
control....
RE: birth control, will parents go crazy?
Posted by: DanR on Oct 31st, 2007 2:33pm
I can understand your concern about your parents finding
out. I'm not sure why you want birth control if you're not
having intercourse, but perhaps there are some benefits
(like shorter, lighter periods) that you're seeking. If you
go to a Title X clinic, such as a Planned Parenthood or
health department, your appointment will be completely
confidential. If you go to a private doctor or physician,
then you need to ask them about their confidentiality rules
when you are making the appointment.
birth control, will parents go crazy?
Posted by: yungsha2 on Oct 27th, 2007 12:42am
im thinking about getting birth control,and im 14 and still
not sexually active though i dont know if i can get it or
not because im afraid that my mom might find out. wat should
i do?
birth control
Posted by: kee2 on Feb 4th, 2007 5:42pm
i would really like to get the three month birth control
thing. my boyfriend and i arent having intercourse, we r
having other forms of sex tho, and i hate getting my period.
But i dont know how i would get to the gyno, and what the
heck could i say to my mom for her to take me?
Speculum
Posted by: StacieS on Feb 1st, 2007 10:56am
It is NOT necessary for the gyn to give you a pevic exam or
pap smear if you just need birth control. They do not need
to do this unless you are over 21 or if you are experiencing
pain in your genital region. It is understandable that you
would feel nervous about having a speculum in you. However,
for most women it is just midly uncomfortable. Can you talk
to your mom or a female relative or guardian about this?
They may be able to share with you what it is like for them.
birth control
Posted by: dena on Jan 30th, 2007 5:38pm
im thinking about getting on birth control but im afraid of
getting a speculum inside of me should i be scared?
RE: Birth Control
Posted by: DanR on Nov 12th, 2007 7:42am
You are not alone in feeling uncomfortable about your first
pelvic exam, but it's critical in helping to safeguard your
health since the pill only prevents pregnancy, not any STDs.
It is recommended that you get your first pelvis exam no
later then 3 years after the time you become sexually
active, or when you turn 21 (whichever comes first). Talk
with your health care provider about your concerns and fears
and together I am sure you can work out an arrangement
you'll feel comfortable with.