RE: a little confused

Posted by: DanR on Aug 19th, 2008 10:38am

Sexual orientation is about who you are physically AND
emotionally attracted to. It is very natural for people to
feel more comfortable around people of the same gender they
are. You should not feel like you have to put a label on
your feelings or that you have to experiment sexually with
others. Take some time to explore your thoughts and feelings
and make sure you understand them first. No matter what you
feel, I want you to know that it is perfectly normal and
okay to feel that way.

a little confused

Posted by: perksofbeingme on Aug 19th, 2008 1:43am

i've had boyfriends but everytime i'm with them i feel
uncomfortable when we're together.but when i'm with best
girl friends i flirt a little and am kind of attracted to
them. what does that mean for me? but i am also attracted to
guys too. we have alot of bi/gay/lesbians in my school and i
don't know if i should experiment with them to find out my
true feelings.

RE: How do u know if your bisexual?

Posted by: DanR on Mar 3rd, 2008 11:08am

I think the answer up above sums it up best. There is no
way to know for sure if you are bisexual except to give
yourself time and see what feels right for you. Sexual
orientation is not something that is black or white, there
are many different shades of grey for different people. The
important thing to know is that no matter who you love, it
is OK. Check out this FAQ for some additional resources:
http://www.sexetc.org/faq/glbtq/2736.

How do u know if your bisexual?

Posted by: Brooklyn69 on Mar 2nd, 2008 6:46pm

How do you know if your bisexual?? i know i like boys but
sometimes i think i might like girls too... i get really
confused cause sometimes i'll think maybe i am.. i dont go
crazy over girls like i do with guys but it feels like i'm
hidding something. just how do u know ???? -Confused Girl

Just because...

Posted by: VirginOnTheVerge on Sep 4th, 2007 9:39pm

Just because you feel attracted to one or two people of the
same gender doesn't mean you are gay. It might, but it is
not a sure thing. In fact, it's normal to be attracted to
someone of both genders at one point before finding out what
your sexual orientation is. When you feel a strong
attraction to a specific gender in general, that will tell
you. :)

I just don't know

Posted by: FOLLOW UR HEART on Aug 13th, 2007 10:22am

Sometimes I wonder a couple of years back I used to think of
two girls and view it as a turn off now wen I think of it I
just sometimes wish I could find that one I feel as I'm bi
but I don't wanna come out n tell anyone without trying
first its just confusing

Be open

Posted by: CHEESEWDO on May 29th, 2007 10:46am

I knew I was bi when I was 12, I remember being so afraid of
what people would think, and I didn't know how to tell
people. But after I told my friends and family I was so
relieved, they had no problem with it at all, if you know
you're bi/gay/lesbian or whatever you should come out with
it and just be open

it is True

Posted by: Biguy1990 on Mar 9th, 2007 7:00pm

i was not sure what orienatation i was. i found a really
good friend who experimented before and became straight he
said he would sit and talk to me. we later got togerther and
talked but it lead to sex and i enjoyed it, i know now that
im bi.