It's impossible for another person to know whether you're gay based on one “crush” experience. During the teen years and young adulthood, many people struggle to discover who they are and that includes trying to figure out whether they're gay (homosexual), “straight” (heterosexual) or bi (bisexual).

Some people have sexual experiences with people of the same gender when they are young and that’s perfectly OK. The vast majority of them grow up to be heterosexual. And, some have sexual experiences with people of the opposite gender when they are young, but grow up to be gay.

Many people—teens and adults—have sexual thoughts or fantasies about people of the same gender without necessarily being gay.

A person's sexual orientation is something that develops over time. Your feelings, not just behaviors, will eventually help you figure out whether you're gay, heterosexual or bisexual.

It's probably a bad idea to label yourself now. Just try to figure out how you feel toward different people and in different situations. Try to figure out what makes you happy. If your feelings continue to worry you, see a counselor or other professional you can talk to who can help you sort things out. Or call the National Gay and Lesbian Hotline at 1-800-221-7044. They can help.