There’s no doubt that young teens and even pre-teens often feel like they’re in love. And, it’s definitely possible to feel attracted and affectionate toward another person, even at a young age.

But, as you grow, your needs change. You become attracted to different qualities in a person. You learn what you like about some people and what you don’t like. So, as you get older, the people you’re attracted to will likely change. Plus, when you’re young, love interests are usually about practicing and experimenting. You’re learning how to relate to someone you’re attracted to.

Older teens and young adults want to feel connected to another person, and be understood by that person. In more mature relationships, the sexual part is also about connection and intimacy, not just feeling physical pleasure.