Does having sex mean I'll fall in love?

Being in love sometimes leads to sex, but having sex will not guarantee that you or your partner will fall in love.

So, if you're using sex to get love, you'll probably be disappointed.

Sex means something different to everyone. So does love. Sometimes, having sex makes you feel like you're in love, but it can fool you. You think you're in love because of the way a person makes you feel physically -- not because of who they are and what you give to each other.

Also, strange as it sounds, having sex too soon can actually thwart love. When two people get too physical, too quickly, they sometimes get embarrassed and pull away from each other. It's easy to bare your body -- much harder to bare your soul. So sometimes, sex feels like the fast way to love and intimacy. It's not.

Truth is, couples who take their timeand that means more than a couple of monthsto become friends before having sex usually become closer and more intimate. And that's love.


Your Comments

sex does change a relationship

Posted by: heyguys on Dec 27th, 2007 1:22pm

i know this sounds bad but i had a boyfriend we were only
going out for about a week and we already had sex we barely
even knew eachother im not sure he knew my last name then we
did it again about a week later and now its hard to get to
know eachother knowing weve already done it we both agree on
this and we arent really sure of how to get to know
eachother at this point we have nothing in common which isnt
the problem everytime we are together its just about sex i
dont regret it but idk...

I agree

Posted by: odette1989 on Mar 15th, 2007 10:31pm

For most guys that is away to get into ya pants ... by
saying some stupid crap..like i love you baby and if you
love me you would let me hit it...oo please...

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