Lots of people talk about good communication, but what does that mean?

Communication is another key to a good, healthy relationship. It means being able to tell your partner how you feel, what you need, what you believe and what you want. It also means listening to and understanding your partner’s feelings, needs, beliefs and desires.

It takes time for two people to learn to communicate. It’s often the most difficult part of a relationship. Over time, many committed couples learn to “read” each other, understanding both what their partner is saying and what they’re leaving unsaid. This brings deeper understanding, trust and commitment to a relationship.

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Wat should i do..?

Posted by: lifeonce on Aug 16th, 2008 7:18am

I have been wif my guy for one n a half year.these days i
found out tat he didnt care about me so much like the days
we had met before.i wnt his attention as i had given so much
free time for him to have his own hobby.or maybe i have
already spoilt him?i have tried to talk to him but tis didnt
help much as he will continue to do it again.I said tat i
will break up wif him if he does it again.i dun noe wat to
do because i wnt him to care me but i dun wat to break wif
him.thx for comment...

It's important.

Posted by: HanaBee on Jul 8th, 2008 7:50pm

I have been with my Partner for 2 and a half years now and
its a good thing to have a heathly communication within each
other, we speak about anything and he is my bestfriend.

Question... Same as Akward Scene

Posted by: butterfly_chinx on Jun 3rd, 2008 1:53pm

i have a boyfriend and i have been with him for a year now.
we had some tough times when i wanted to give up comepletely
but i didnt. recently though i have come across alot of old
memory things of and ex. i was with my ex for two years and
loved every minute of it. i can and will admit he was my
first love. for some reason things just ended. Now with my
new boyfriend i have found peace and love being with him and
can admit too i have fallen in love with him. How do i deal
with forgetting my ex?

Re: guys and girls butts

Posted by: LucindaH on Jun 2nd, 2008 12:00pm

If a guy said he's likes your butt, he probably just means
he likes the look of your butt. If your boyfriend said this
to you and you think he means something else, then you
should talk to him. If a guy you know casually said this to
you, then you might want to make sure he appreciates you for
more than just your body. As it says above, communication is
key. When it comes to communication, you want to be as clear
as possible to avoid any confusion between you and another
person.

guys and girl butts

Posted by: uncertainfreak on May 28th, 2008 10:02pm

What does it mean when a guy likes your butt? Does it mean
he wants to have anal sex? Or what?

awkward scene

Posted by: uncertainfreak on Apr 22nd, 2008 10:30pm

I'm going out with this one guy but today i was with my
friend and we saw my ex she was trying to get this one guys
attention then i told her it was him we went up to him and
talked for about a hour or so he kept saying oh im sorry i
forgot you have a BOYFRIEND i told my friend in a whisper
that he was my first love but... i still love him and we're
different now but what about my boyfriend!!! im soo
confused i want to be with my ex but i dont want to hurt my
bf HELP!!!!

im glad too.

Posted by: uncertainfreak on Apr 19th, 2008 1:13am

instead of giving him a pic, after going out for two weeks
(yes we ended up going out), i flashed him. but with a bra
on of course. I told him i wanted to slow down a bit. he
says hes happy as long as i am, but i can tell hes horny as
hell. im making sure we go to a certain speed. hopefully, we
dont get a speeding ticket lol.

m3 nd a guy

Posted by: LOCA on Mar 22nd, 2008 8:51pm

i always talk to my boy-fri3nd about ev3rything no matt3r
wat kind off plomble it is h3 will always und3rsrad nd h3y
h3ps m3 out nd found out th3 so loution...

RE: me and my guy friend

Posted by: DanR on Mar 19th, 2008 11:04am

As it says above, open, honest communication is important in
any relationship. Sharing intimate details of your life does
not necessarily mean that you have to engage in sexual
activity. Making that decision should involve talks about
STDs and birth control and making sure BOTH of you are
COMPLETELY ready. Sending pictures of yourself can also be
a risky situation. There can be legal issues around age,
and you never know who is going to see those pictures. I'm
glad you decided against this.

me and my guy friend

Posted by: uncertainfreak on Mar 16th, 2008 10:40pm

okay so me and him told each other things that most people
don't know about us. We've known each other the whole school
year and we barely told each other this the other day. Is
that weird? We're being totally honest to each other. He's
13 1/2 and Im 14yrs old. Also he asked me how... deep things
can go in me. We talk to each other like me want to have
sex. And kinda do... He asked me to send him a pic of my
breasts cuz he was horny and i almost did.

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