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Can I get pregnant if he pulls out?
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A lot of guys, especially younger ones, are unable to control themselves, especially when they're so close to the pleasure of orgasm. Plus, a woman can get pregnant even if a guy ejaculates just a little bit of semen at the opening of her vagina.
Safer sex is not just about preventing unwanted pregnancy. It's also about keeping you and your partner healthy -- and free from sexually transmitted diseases, which can be spread both through pre-cum and vaginal fluids.
Pulling out is better than using no birth control at all. But it's unreliable and gives no protection against sexually transmitted diseases. Are you really ready to take those chances?
If you want to make an appointment at a family planning clinic to be tested for pregnancy and/or STDs, to get emergency contraception, or to get a reliable method of birth control, you can find one in your area by looking in your local yellow pages under "family planning" or "clinics." You can click here to find a clinic near you, or call 1-800-230-PLAN to be connected automatically to the Planned Parenthood health center nearest you.
Your Comments
is it possible?
Posted by: zyt on Nov 16th, 2008 12:02pm
my boyfriend and I just had unprotected sex but he pulled
out 3 to 5 minutes before he ejaculated and just finished
him off by hand. my next period should be due in one week
and he hasn't recently ejaculated before we had sex. is it
possible that i could be pregnant? because if there is a low
possibility i would rather not take birth control.
RE: ??
Posted by: DanR on Nov 14th, 2008 11:09am
There is no way for me to know whether or not you are
pregnant. If the test said no, and you have gotten your
period consistently since then, and not done anything that
would put you at risk for pregnancy, then I would say that
you are safe. Just remember...September was 2 months
ago...there is a possibility for pregnancy every month.
??
Posted by: smily140 on Nov 12th, 2008 7:57pm
Hello again
I just want to write you back but in september I
took 4 pregency test and it is negative. Im not pregnant
right?
RE: ??
Posted by: DanR on Oct 29th, 2008 1:36pm
It doesn't sound like you are pregnant. If you are actually
getting your period, then you are not pregnant. The only
way to tell for sure is to get a pregnancy test. If you had
unprotected sex, you should get tested for STDs as well. A
clinic can do testing for both for you. If you need to find
a clinic near you, check out this link:
http://www.sexetc.org/page/get_tested/.
??
Posted by: smily140 on Oct 28th, 2008 8:04pm
Hi
I message you before but I had unprotected sex in
beganing of August and got my period in the end of
August.
Got my period in September and October. Im not
pregnant right?
RE: ???
Posted by: DanR on Oct 24th, 2008 12:52pm
If the male is not using a condom, a girl will likely feel a
warm, gushy feeling if he ejaculates inside of her. You do
need to be careful because unprotected sex like this can
lead to unwanted pregnancy and STDs. If you have had
unprotected sex, it is best to take EC within the first 2 or
3 days. The longer you wait after unprotected sex to take
EC, the less effective it is. I hope that helps!
RE: Help!!!
Posted by: DanR on Oct 24th, 2008 12:20pm
You shouldn't have to worry about urinating when you have an
erection. The body has built in ways to prevent you from
urinating during that time. If you ejaculated, you would
feel fluids come rushing out of the tip of your penis, so my
guess is that you probably did not ejaculate. If you are
wooried, check out our information on EC. The fluid you
were seeing may have been pre-cum. I would suggest always
using a condom to be safer and reduce your risk of unwanted
pregnancy and STDs.
???
Posted by: scaredteen199 on Oct 24th, 2008 12:27am
Cant a girl feel when the sperm goes inside her???And also
what happens if you take the E.C. Plan B pill after 6
days???Can it still work???
Help!!!
Posted by: scaredteen199 on Oct 24th, 2008 12:25am
Me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex
a couple of days
ago.When started doing it I had to urinate a little.After a
while I thought that I was about to ejaculate so I pulled
out. When I did there was nothing on my penis so does that
mean i didnt ejaculate in her. Also about 15 min after we
finished doing it I checked my penis and there was semen in
my urethra starting to come out. Does that mean I already
ejaculated or did I ejaculate late or something.
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RE: is it possible?
Posted by: DanR on Nov 17th, 2008 2:47pm
As long as none of his sperm got into your vagina, there is
no way that you could be pregnant. Unprotected sex can,
however, leave you at risk for STDs, so you should be tested
regularly. I am not sure if you meant you don't want to
take Emergency contraception (EC), but regular birth control
must be taken regularly in order to be effective. EC is
taken if something happened that would put you at a higher
risk for pregnancy. EC does not protect against STDs.