Does sex feel different with a condom?

If you asked most guys and girls, they would say "yes" it feels different with a condom--but you'd get a range of descriptions. Some think it feels better, some think it feels worse.


Many people say that sex feels better with condoms because they can relax and not worry about pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). And still others like using condoms because they prefer the taste of flavored condoms during oral sex, or the warm tingles of special lubricated condoms.

 
The most common complaint from guys is that they "can't feel anything." But other guys love using condoms because they can "last longer," or they like the sensations of ribbed condoms. Some girls and guys say that they feel distanced from their partners when they use condoms.

 
If you are a guy who experiences less pleasure and sensation when using a condom, then there are a few things you can do to make it feel better.

  • You may want to try polyurethane condoms. Polyurethane conducts body heat better and can feel more "sheer."
  • You may want to try thin latex condoms, such as Trojan Ultra Thin, or Trojan Warm Sensations.
  • You may want to try putting a tiny drop of lubricant inside the condom at the tip so that it slides over the head of the penis more freely.
  • If you are uncircumcised and experience pain when you pull back your foreskin to put on the condom, you may have adhesions between your glans and shaft which can be easily remedied at a doctor's office.

If you are a girl or guy who experiences less pleasure when your partner uses a condom for oral, vaginal or anal sex, you may also want to try these tips:

  • For vaginal or anal sex, use a store-bought lubricant, like K-Y Jelly or Astroglide, to help decrease friction between your skin and the condom.
  • Make sure your partner is using a condom that fits him well. You may want to buy an assorted pack of sizes from Condomania and let him try each one while masturbating to find the perfect fit.
  • Choose your favorite flavored condoma from Condomania for oral sex. There are many to choose from!

Alas, condoms can potentially interrupt the intimacy of sex. But with a little creativity, putting on the condom can become a fun part of your sexual foreplay. To make this part of condom use even easier, make sure you know exactly what you're doing. (Guys, you can practice on yourself or girls, with an object.)

If the interruption is more than you want to deal with, then you could also experiment with using female condoms, which can be put in place hours before the date even begins. (To learn about female condoms, click here.)

And finally, even when it feels "a little different" when you use a condom, just remember that only condoms can protect you from most STDs, such as HIV. And for heterosexual couples, they also do "double duty" by backing up your birth control, like the Pill, Patch or Shot, to protect you from an unintended pregnancy.


Your Comments

RE: Question

Posted by: DanR on Mar 31st, 2008 3:07pm

A combination of birth control pills and condoms are the
most effective way to protect your self against pregnancy
(and STDs – the pill alone does not protect against that).
Statistically, if used properly every time, male condoms
are 85-98% effective. The female condom is 79-95%
effective. Depending on where you live and how old you are,
you may be able to get BC at a local clinic. Check out this
link: http://www.sexetc.org/state.

Question

Posted by: ToxicRainbow on Mar 30th, 2008 10:35am

I'm too young to be on a birth control medicine like the
Pill-- or, let me rephrase that. I'm not too young to be on
the Pill, but I know my mom would never get it for me, even
for menstrual problems, because she thinks that I would
freely sleep around after that (so totally not true!)
However, if I do want to have sex and I use a condom without
backing it up with birth control, what are the chances of me
getting pregnant? And don't female condoms slip more easily
during intercourse?

RE: what should i do??????

Posted by: DanR on Jan 7th, 2008 2:13pm

A condom may leak for a few reasons. It can have a small
hole, maybe it broke during intercourse or it may not be the
right size for you. Regardless of the reason, if a condom
is leaking, you should definitely stop what you are doing
and correct the problem. If fluids are being passed from
one person to another, the condom is not protecting you
against pregnancy or STDs. To look over the steps to using
a condom effectively, check out this FAQ:
http://www.sexetc.org/faq/birth_control/1062.

what should i do??????

Posted by: nathan575 on Jan 5th, 2008 5:30pm

should i end sexual intercourse if my condom leaks??

RE: isnt there a risk?

Posted by: DanR on Dec 18th, 2007 2:26pm

When used correctly, every single time, condoms prevent
pregnancy about 98 percent of the time. The typical
effectiveness rate--where human mistakes are made --is about
85 percent. A condom needs to be used correctly, each and
every time, for it to prevent pregnancy and the spread of
STDS. Overall they don't break easily, especially if you
know how to use them correctly. You can review the steps
for using condoms correctly by going to:
http://www.sexetc.org/story/birth_control/2221/

isnt there a risk?

Posted by: amic on Dec 15th, 2007 8:40am

what about that old saying, condoms break. Is it guarnteed
that using one will keep you safe

condoms

Posted by: charese on Sep 2nd, 2007 5:37pm

Every one shuld use condoms. Male or female it isz importion
that u use one!! I rather be safe from pregnancy, std,or
anything!! For that matter it isz VERY wize to use a
condom!!!! jasmine,15,ok

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