Anal sex is when a penis or other object enters a partner’s anus. Like any other sexual behavior, some people find it very pleasurable and others don’t. Some people are curious about it and others know it’s not something they’re comfortable with. Everyone gets to decide for themselves what is and is not comfortable for them, for any sexual behavior. There is nothing wrong with engaging in anal sex, but whether it is right for you is something only you can decide.

Since the anus is not capable of producing its own lubrication (as the vagina can) and the tissue of the anus is very fragile, it is important that additional water-soluble lubrication (a variety of brands are available at drug stores be used during anal sex. Without lubrication, there may be pain, discomfort and tearing of the tissue in the anus. During anal intercourse, as with any other type, comfort and relaxation are important to a pleasurable experience. People have a lot of different feelings about anal sex. Some people think that only those who identify as gay have anal sex. But that's not true. Anal sex can and is practiced by both gay and heterosexual couples. At the same time, some gay couples and some heterosexual couples never engage in anal sex.

Like any other type of sex, a condom is absolutely necessary during anal sex. Couples who engage in anal intercourse need to know that it is one of the primary ways that HIV can be spread sexually. This is because the lining of the anus is prone to tearing if there if not enough lubrication. This creates small tears in the anus where it is easier for HIV to get in.

If a guy and a girl are having anal sex should never put the penis into the vagina after it has been in the anus without changing the condom or washing the penis first. The bacteria in the anus can cause severe vaginal infections. In addition, regardless of the sex of each partner, after the penis has been in a partner’s anus it should never be inserted into a partner’s mouth without changing the condom or washing the penis off first. Just as bacteria in the anus can cause severe vaginal infections it can also cause oral and intestinal infections. It is also possible to get pregnant through anal sex if semen runs out of the anus into the opening of the vagina, which is not far away (another good reason to use a condom).

Before engaging in anal intercourse, make sure that you and your partner have discussed and agreed upon it. Never pressure someone or let someone pressure you into having any kind of sex.