How do you kiss? Is there a right way?

A good kiss is different for everyone. Some like quick, dry kisses. Others like long, wet kisses. Some people prefer French kissing, when you open your mouth and use your tongue to explore your partner’s mouth. Sometimes, this means short, light flicks of the tongue. Other times, it might be longer, deeper tongue action. Usually, banging teeth or having a tongue jammed into your mouth are turn-offs.

A lot of people worry about whether they’ll be a good kisser. But, a good kiss often just happens, when two people seem to ‘fit’ together. Usually, it’s best to begin with soft, gentle kisses and move on to more passionate kissing as the relationship develops and you get to know each other better.

Your Comments

RE: Naked?

Posted by: DanR on Aug 18th, 2008 10:39am

That is a great question, but a complicated one to answer.
You never "have to" do anything you do not want to do, so
keep that in mind. As far as being naked during sex, it
would depend on what kind of sex you are having (oral, anal
or vaginal) and who is giving and who is recieving. As you
can see, there are many variables. You should talk to your
partner ahead of time about what you are comfortable with
and what you are not to make the experience enjoyable for
you both.

Naked?

Posted by: ownage2008 on Aug 15th, 2008 10:45am

Do i have to be naked when i have sex with my partner? Does
being naked make the process better?

Memorable...

Posted by: lifeonce on Aug 3rd, 2008 9:05am

i am 15 n my first kiss was given out 2 my first bf.it was
tat nite in my hse wif the moon..he hug me tightly n i feel
very comfortable 2 it.suddenly his mouth came 2 me n i feel
nervous.but tis was overcome when i feel my heart was
belonged 2 him,We started french kiss the first time n we
both have a good time...!it was soo hot n i cant
breathe!...Continue..!^.^

RE:why doesn't it happened yet?

Posted by: lifeonce on Aug 3rd, 2008 8:57am

it seems like u want ur boyfriend kiss very much...choose a
place where u can relax urselves,juz start wif a normal
conversation...n then hug him if u can...let he feel u nid
him n getting closer 2 him...as a guy, i think he will know
wat 2 do...!dun 4get 2 give a gentle smile after ur sweet
kiss...!hope tis work n may god bless u..

My First Kiss

Posted by: DarinB95 on Jun 28th, 2008 5:03am

Im 13 now and I had my first kiss when i was like in 1st
grade but havent kissed a girl ever since it feels like its
my first kiss all over again and I feel like im gonna suck
when I go to kiss my date so wats up???

why hasnt it happened yet?

Posted by: beautiful_teen on Apr 16th, 2008 9:03pm

i want my first kiss to be with this certain guy but ive
been waiting for him to do it for a long time and im nervous
about telling him i want him to kiss me. im also nervous
cause it will be my first kiss and ive known him for sooooo
long we are like bffs and its a little wierd but we talked
about our feelings for one another and it turns out we have
felt the same way ever since we meet! CRAZY i know but when
i figured that out it felt like i had butterflies in my
tummy! it was a great feeling!

kissing

Posted by: sBennett09 on Feb 3rd, 2008 3:35pm

there is always going to be that questoin of whether or not
you are a good kisser..i know my first kiss was werid but
after you get to know the person and you figure out "how
they like to kiss" you will feel more comfertable with the
person and it will become more natural..you will learn what
each other likes...!

....continued

Posted by: mcrkitty on Jan 24th, 2008 4:47pm

Even if you've never made out before, when you're in the
moment and you both feel so passionately about eachother,
things just happen. Trust me, I had been like soo nervous
thinking "what if i can't tongue kiss?!" haha but i did, and
i was good. So don't worry about it. As long as you're with
someone you really like, things will go...hotly ; )

it just comes to you!

Posted by: mcrkitty on Jan 24th, 2008 4:45pm

I believe that it comes naturally. I'm 15 & I've kissed a
few guys(just pecks tho) but recently I was with my
boyfriend and we were just laying together when he just
leaned down and kissed me (it wasnt the first time) but then
we kissed again, & again-the kisses got harder and more
intense and then we began french kissing and went from
there.I'd never made out with a guy until then, & i was so
worried and nervous about it, but when it came down to it,
it was so passionate and just came to me : )

kissing

Posted by: getBuckinhere21 on Jan 15th, 2008 1:00am

i've kissed quite a few people so far and when it comes down
to it, what really matters is if you have feelings for this
person, or if there is a connection. i remember my first
boyfriend, who in fact wasnt the first i kissed, but the
first time we both kissed, it was like magic. my stomach was
going crazy with butterflies and all. i wasnt nervous but
the connection was so strong. i couldnt breath the rest of
the night just thinking about it...i have yet to duplicate
it with someone else.

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