Fingering is when a person touches a girl’s genitals. Many people think fingering is when someone puts a finger inside the vagina. Some girls like this, but others may prefer it when someone rubs or strokes the clitoris, a small but sensitive organ just about the vaginal opening. Some girls like both of these things. What a couple decides to do requires honest communication. That means you have to try different things and ask your partner what he or she likes.