Sex, Etc. -- How do you give oral sex?

How do you give oral sex?

There is no one right way to give a person oral sex. Everyone has their own special likes and dislikes. Like any sexual experience, the key is for couples to talk to each other about their likes and dislikes.

Oral sex on a guy (a.k.a. blow job, fellatio, giving head) is usually done by licking and sucking the head of the penis with the mouth and using the hands to touch and rub the shaft of the penis, and maybe the testicles or anus. This can cause a guy to orgasm, or cum.

Oral sex on a girl (a.k.a. eating out, cunnilingus, going down) usually means licking and sucking the clitoris, labia, and vaginal opening. This can cause a girl to orgasm, or cum. Where and how hard or soft to do this depends on the person, so each couple needs to experiment and communicate to discover ways to pleasure each other.

Sometimes, couples will give each other oral sex at the same time. In slang, it’s known as “69.” The two people’s heads are positioned in a way that, together, they look like the numbers 6 and 9.

Your Comments

RE: I can't give a head

Posted by: DanR on Jul 8th, 2008 12:34pm

It's perfectly normal and OK to not want to give oral sex.
There are somethings that some people do not feel
comfortable doing...and so they should not feel forced to.
I think it is great that you are aware of what you are
comfortable with and what you are not. I would communicate
your thoughts and feelings to your partner and talk about
other ways that the two of you can make each other feel
good. Commmunication is very important in any relationship.

I can't give a head

Posted by: geeta.bhagwan on Jul 5th, 2008 4:27pm

I'm 19 years old girl and I recieved oral sex only once...
it was a great feeling but I can't give him at all ... I'm
scared and I feel it's not hygeine & disgusting.... I tired
twice and failed .. what can I do??

RE: HELP ME !

Posted by: DanR on Jun 16th, 2008 12:23pm

There is no right or wrong way to give oral sex. The best
advice I can give you is to talk to your partner and see
what he likes. Each guy may like something different, so
work through it together. Remember that communication is
one of the most important aspects of any relationship. I
hope that you have also communicated with each other about
using protecting when you have oral sex to protect both of
you from possible STDs.

HELP ME !

Posted by: cheeringcrzy on Jun 13th, 2008 2:55pm

alright my bf has been talking to me about giving him head
and he knows it is my first time. obviously i know what
head is but i don't know how to do it, do you "jack off and
suck at the same time" or "jack off then suck jack off then
suck" HELP ME PLEASEEE!

oral sex

Posted by: babybubbles34 on Mar 11th, 2008 6:07pm

iv given and recieved oral sex before, but ive never 69ed. i
like giving it and i think it feels really good to recieve
it. but if you like recieving make sure the guy youre doing
it with is okay with giving and recieving so you can give
some of that wonderful feeling back to him in return.

RE: Ive done it too.

Posted by: DanR on Mar 10th, 2008 12:00pm

Everyone is different when it comes to sexual pleasure.
What feels good or is exciting for one person can be a
complete turn-off to another. It is all a matter of
preference. What is important is that you are open and
communicate with your partner what is enjoyable and
comfortable for you and what is not.

Ive done it too.

Posted by: Whantsomecandy on Mar 7th, 2008 7:01pm

I have done oral sex, I do enjoy giving it but i dont like
getting it. Id rather "get fingerd" Is that normal, to not
like oral sex?

RE: oral sex

Posted by: DanR on Jan 2nd, 2008 12:05pm

As it says above, there is no one right way to give oral
sex. It is really about a person's likes or dislikes, so
communicating with your partner is going to be a big part of
making this an enjoyable (and hopefully, not awkward)
experience. I hope that you have already thought about
using protection, as STD's can be transmitted through oral
sex. If not, check out this FAQ:
http://www.sexetc.org/faq/std/1047.

oral sex

Posted by: SiSiS111 on Dec 21st, 2007 4:22pm

my boyfriend has had oral sex before but i havent. i kinda
feel like he'll know when i do something wrong. is that
gonna make things awkward between us?

Oral Sex

Posted by: gray.scale27 on Dec 16th, 2007 9:31pm

Ok, so this is an awkward question, but when you (a chick)
gets oral sex, do you have to worry about your pubic hair? I
mean, would it be really gross for a guy, or what? (i'm a
girl, btw) JC

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