Sex, Etc. -- Should I swallow?

Should I swallow?

This is a big worry for many. Some people are really turned off by the idea of allowing a partner to ejaculate, or cum, in their mouths. And they don’t like the idea of swallowing a guy’s semen. Others like the taste and smell of semen and like giving this pleasure to their partner.

There are two basic considerations. Whenever pre-cum or semen enters the body, whether through the mouth or another opening, there’s a good chance of catching a sexually transmitted disease, if your partner has one. And it’s tough to tell whether a person has a disease. Sometimes, people have diseases and don’t even know it. So, that’s a real risk. The only way to make sure you avoid an STD when giving (or getting) oral sex is to use a latex barrier, like a flavored condom.

The other big factor is whether you feel comfortable. Many guys like it when they can cum in their partner’s mouth. But, you should never feel pressured to do this. Only do it if you feel comfortable and safe. If you don’t, then use a condom, like a flavored condom (which is a good idea anyway, since it protects against sexually transmitted diseases). Another option is to tell your partner to signal when he is going to cum so you can move your mouth away.

Your Comments

RE: Can I?

Posted by: DanR on Jun 16th, 2008 2:58pm

I would always suggest that some form of latex barrier
protection (such as condom or sheer glyde dam) be used to
reduce your risk of STDs and pregnancy. Hormonal birth
control can also be used with a condom by women as an extra
precaution to reduce the risk of unwanted pregnancy. You
should make sure you are always protecting yourself against
both. It is also important to be tested for STDs regularly
once you become sexually active. Remember, abstinence is
the only 100% safe method.

Can I?

Posted by: Balletdancer4life on Jun 14th, 2008 10:29am

Okay, so my partner has had sex with his last g/f, and did a
whole bunch of things. Well i'm still a virgin and have only
given oral to one person who wore a condom. Can i get a
deadly disease or STD any thing like that? We both care
about being clean and everything, so.?

RE: Confused

Posted by: DanR on Jan 7th, 2008 1:12pm

Yes. Although the chance of getting or giving a sexually
transmitted disease (STD) during oral sex is less than
vaginal or anal sex, it is risky to have unprotected oral
sex. Many STDs want to infect warm, wet places, like your
mouth, urethra, vulva, vagina, penis, and/or anus. This
means that many STDs can be passed from your mouth to
genitals and vice versa. This means that you need to plan
ahead, talk to your partner, and use protection. For more
info see: http://www.sexetc.org/faq/std/1009

Confused

Posted by: Converse_Gal on Jan 6th, 2008 11:30am

Me and my boyfriend had oral and we didn't use any
protection, he didn't cum in my mouth. We were both virgins.
Is there any chance that i/we could catch an STI?

It really isnt that bad.

Posted by: beautyinthebreakdown. on Dec 9th, 2007 7:58pm

As long as you dont anticipate it tasting nasty. It's not as
nasty as it seems. But the stickiness is quite disgusting.

How to make your Cum taste Better

Posted by: CarnageS7 on Nov 13th, 2007 4:15pm

you need to eat a balenced diet to make your cum taste
better, but there are no garantees. The taste of cum is a
preference and your partner may still not like the taste of
it. Hope my advice helps thanks!

is there a wat to make it taste better?: Response

Posted by: StacieS on Sep 27th, 2007 1:32pm

Maybe. There isn't any definitive research that says it is
possible to change the taste of semen, but there are some
tips that might work here:
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/?article=85T4 You could also
signal to her when you are going to cum so that she can stop
and you can finish. Or she could use a flavored condom - an
even better option so that you both get some protection from
STDs.

is there a wat to make it taste better?

Posted by: seanyboy on Sep 27th, 2007 7:22am

hey guys i love oral sex and when my girlfriend goes down on
me but she hates the end of the act beacause she hates the
taste of my cum. does anybody know id there a way to make it
taste better? is there a way or does it always stay the same
and whether somebody likes the taste depends on them? please
respond because i used to love the intimacy of it and now i
just feel guilty and stop her

Personal

Posted by: jstn_gurl_118 on Jul 25th, 2007 12:30pm

It is a personal desicion. I personally enjoy swallowing but
there is no need to. Sometimes falvored condoms are good to
use. My fav. is Strawberry. And there pretty cheap. But if u
do choose to swallow make sure that you're partner does not
have an STD or an STI cause they really cut down on the
intimancy.

ewwwwwwwwwww times two

Posted by: marsia on Jul 7th, 2007 2:41pm

i can amagine me allowing anyone to do that with
anyone.never knew if you swalowed you could catch a std.

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