RE: Umm

Posted by: DanR on Aug 13th, 2008 3:13pm

There is no need to feel weird. Due to many changes in
lifestyle in our society, it is very common for a girls
hymen to be broken before her first sexual encounter. If
you use a mirror and a flash light you can look at your
vaginal opening and see if you can see a piece of skin
partially covering the vaginal opening. If so, it may be
your hymen. Here is a diagram that will show you what you
should be looking for:
http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/hymen.html.

Umm

Posted by: FL_Gurl3494 on Aug 13th, 2008 2:36am

I Feel Wierd Now Cause I Use Tampons,I Ride Bikes,& Ive
Mesturbated Before But I Dont Have a Gyno...How Do You Know
If You've ACIDENTLY Brokin Your Hymen???

RE: i dont know if i can

Posted by: DanR on Jul 30th, 2008 2:27pm

Many girls do say that it hurts the first time they have
vaginal sex. This can be due to the hymen. If your hymen
is still in tact, the pain you are feeling, could be the
hymen tearing. Another cause for pain can be lack of
lubrication. Using a personal water based lubricant can
help if this is the case. Also, sometimes, if you are just
nervous, your muscles may tighten up, which can make it
difficult for the penis to be inserted. I hope that helps a
little!

i dont know if i can

Posted by: x333 on Jul 28th, 2008 7:44pm

ive tried to have sex 3 times, first time it did go in right
but it was too sore so i told him to leave it 2nd time it
wouldt go in & 3rd time it would. is there something wrong
with me or have i still got to wait for myself to grow?

does it count?

Posted by: HarmonyHatred! on Jul 10th, 2008 9:26pm

i kind of want to get it over with &experience this feeling
all my friends are talking about. so, if i were to have sex
with a good friend or a past ex just for funn &experience
for the future, would it count as a first? or would it count
as practice until i'm in love &i want to move further into
the relationship. i don't know. i really want to try it,
but only count my first time as the time where i'm in love
with someone. i'm confused. ):

RE: I'M really not sure.

Posted by: DanR on Jun 12th, 2008 9:59am

No, there is nothing wrong at all. Many times, the bleeding
associated with having sex for the first time is due to the
hymen breaking. The hymen is a thin piece of tissue that
partially covers the vaginal opening. However, for many
girls, the hymen is broken before having sex for any number
of reasons which can include using a tampon or riding a
bike. It has nothing to do with the size of your ex
boyfriend's penis.

I'M really not sure.

Posted by: chebaby1991 on Jun 10th, 2008 11:12am

When i first had sex i didnt bleed . it hurt and i know im
not a virgin but did my ex bf do something wrong ? does it
mean his penis wasnt big enough ?

i've

Posted by: selena! on Apr 15th, 2008 10:17pm

ive had and recieved oral sex many many many times. the
problem is ive also had sex before. im not im shame of it
even tho i shud be because im only 14. ive been having sex
and oralsex for about 5 years now. the point is if you think
certin things are gonnd make you not a virgin then think
extra hard about doing it! do what will not become a regret.
also my probem was i was doing stuff with guys i didnt like.
watch out for your self

RE: How do I know?

Posted by: DanR on Feb 28th, 2008 1:00pm

Many people associate the breaking of the hymen with sexual
intercourse, but the truth is, your hymen may have been
broken before you ever had intercourse. Simple things like
masturbation or using a tampon can also cause the hymen to
break. To find out for sure, you can ask your doctor or
gynecologist during your next appointment. You can also use
your own finger to examine the opening of your vagina for a
thin membrane or use a mirror to check it out yourself, but
that can be difficult.

How do I know?

Posted by: icheerlead6 on Feb 23rd, 2008 11:52pm

I've had sex and it hurt, but not as bad as everyone said it
would. I don't know, but when I had sex, I didn't bleed. How
exactly do you know if your hymen is broken?