“Remember that you have choices and that you deserve to be with people who respect your body and who you are.”
—Charlie, 18, TX
Sex Education by Teens, for Teens!
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“Remember that you have choices and that you deserve to be with people who respect your body and who you are.”
—Charlie, 18, TX
Why does my boyfriend always have an orgasm during sex and I don't?
That’s because guys can easily reach orgasm through vaginal intercourse and girls usually can’t.
Girls usually need much more time and more touch to have an orgasm. They need to have their clitoris, a small bump of skin above the opening of the vagina, touched and rubbed. And that doesn’t usually happen during sexual intercourse, that is having a penis in her vagina. However, many couples do make sure to touch the girl's clitoris during sex. She can touch herself in the way that she likes, or she can teach her partner to touch her clitoris. This is much more likely to feel good and bring about an orgasm.
Of course, orgasm shouldn’t be the only goal of getting physical. Sex should bring the intimate pleasure of being so close to another person. But, there’s no denying that orgasms are something that most people find really pleasurable and couples should try to understand what makes their partner feel good.
Sins?
Posted by: A.Wilson on Jan 11th, 2008 11:08pm
Well, if you say it like that..
It also says in the bible
that we're born into sin. We sin all the time, and there's
virtually no way to not have sinned. So take your pick;
you're likely to have sinned anyway..
re: this still doesn't help
Posted by: gray.scale27 on Dec 21st, 2007 4:02pm
I agree with the other response. it is important to have
your mind into it. like, some people role play and it helps
to get them to it. but it takes time to find your 'rhythm.'
also, if it was your first few times, it usually doesn't
happen. idk why
JC
response to:sex is a sin responder
Posted by: linzerlou080 on Nov 7th, 2007 12:51pm
How can you say that sex is a sin? Yes it may say so in the
bible, but God forgives. Sex is something that happens
between 2 people when they are in love. There is nothing
wrong with having sex when you are not married. I have, and
I do no believe God has shunned me for doing so. Nor will
he to any one else. Lets be a little open minded. waxxhie,
it may be a sin, but God WILL NOT shun you for it.
that's my boyfriend's problem: response
Posted by: StacieS on Jul 30th, 2007 12:14pm
Vaginal penetration isn't always the best way for a woman to
have an orgasm. Many women find it much easier to orgasm
through clitoral stimulation, like with a hand or mouth.
And, of course, the most important sex orgasm is the brain.
If there is something you are worried about then that can
seriously distract from "being in the moment." As for your
boyfriend, just continue to talk to him about how you are
feeling. He can't "give you" an orgasm. He can only be part
of the experience with you.
that's my boyfriend's problem
Posted by: evabb on Jul 29th, 2007 11:39am
I just don't get it, me and my boyfriend had some times sex
(in total 7) but I never had an orgasm. for me it's not so
terrible because I love him and I enjoy being with him. For
him it's a major problem, I think he feels that he not
capable of giving me any pleasure!!! and he's getting
stresed sometimes because I more expierenced than him. What
sould I do to calm him donw?
response to:is sex a sin
Posted by: niam92 on Jul 4th, 2007 2:25am
well...in the Bible is does say that fornacation (sex before
marriage) is a sin...so unless you're married, ofcorse it's
not!!
this still doesn't help: answered
Posted by: StacieS on Jul 2nd, 2007 5:30pm
Generally, what turns us on as human beings has more to do
with our minds than what we are actually doing with our
bodies. If the activities you have been doing aren't
resulting in good sexual feelings then I suggest that you
step back and take time to think about what does turn you
on. For example, some people really need to be deeply in
love to feel safe enough to feel sexual pleasure. Others
need to feel better about their own bodies to open up to
sexual feelings. Anything helpful there?
this still doesn't help. . .
Posted by: PlacitasLatina on Jun 27th, 2007 2:36am
i have done everything there is to do lots and still have
never felt ANYTHING, not to mention it busts the egos of all
the guys too lol, but this is very frustrating, is it
possible to never feel anything?
i think i get it
Posted by: atl on May 30th, 2007 9:39pm
well my boyfriend and i had sex and had asked me if i had
one and i was like uhhhhh i don't know. and then my other
friend was like doesn't a girl have w/e before it's over and
i'm like don't think so because they don't get orgasms that
often so thanks i get it now! i was wondering why i didn't
get an orgasm i thought somthing was wrong
gone to have to try
Posted by: mRs.bRoWn on Feb 25th, 2008 1:05am
will try but that makes a guy think he's doin his job am i
rite why not just fake it and get it over wit thts wat i do
sometimes but i think he's startin to figure it out thats
wat happing