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What is cyber sex or phone sex? How do you do it? Is it safe?

Cyber and phone sex usually involve sex talk on the phone or over the Internet. Sometimes, one or both people masturbate as they talk about sexually arousing things.

For some people, cyber and phone sex are ways to have sexual experiences with another person without the risks of pregnancy, disease, or having to work at having a “real life” relationship with someone. Some people like the distance and anonymity of this kind of sex.

Couples who are separated by distance sometimes use phone or cyber sex to stay close while they’re apart. Other times, people in committed relationships use phone or cyber sex to have outside sexual activity that they don’t see as cheating. But, many people do consider this kind of sex cheating. Others don’t. It’s up to each couple to decide what is OK and what’s not.

Cyber and phone sex have no risk of pregnancy or disease, since you aren’t in physical contact with the other person. But, if you exchange phone numbers or addresses, then it can be very dangerous since you don’t know who you’re talking to. That’s especially true with cyber sex, where people can lie about their age, sex, and who they are. Sexual predators – rapists, pedophiles -- often disguise themselves and go online to lure young people into sexual encounters, pornography, prostitution and other illegal and dangerous activities.

That’s why it’s important to never arrange a personal meeting with someone you only know through the Internet. People have been hurt and even killed by agreeing to meet with people they only know online.

Your Comments

all the time :D

Posted by: catsrule154 on Jun 25th, 2008 4:22pm

i have phone sex w/ my bf all the time! XD it feels like
masturbation with an extra orgasm included!!!

it doesn't work for me

Posted by: geeta.bhagwan on May 29th, 2008 3:37pm

I'd a cyber sex once 8 months ago... but I doesn't feel that
fun and satisfaction... It was some how annoying... Now
after being with my BF, kissing him is much more sweet and
fun .. That's what I think

RE: i want to! but dont think i should

Posted by: DanR on Apr 18th, 2008 2:11pm

This is actually a very complicated question to answer, and
I would suggest if you have specific concerns you contact a
legal professional. There are many variables in a scenario
like this, including (but not limited to) the age of the
parties involved, local laws, content that is being
exchanged, and the age of the parties and content in any
photos that may be exchanged. You should remember that on
the internet you never know who you are REALLY talking to,
so be careful!

i want to! but dont think i should

Posted by: beautiful_teen on Apr 16th, 2008 8:58pm

i hear its fun : ] people say its just like masturbating and
talking to someone at the same time! like you just describe
what your doing and they do it also. should 13 year olds
have phone sex? like is it considered okay?

Cyber sex and phone sex

Posted by: mhop92 on Feb 8th, 2008 2:32pm

I dont think that anyone should feel bad about cyber sex
and/or phone sex. I mean to some it can feel a little dirty
but for the most part it's a natural act and it's sex. Phone
sex has become part of my daily rountine with a friend of
mine. So don't worry about it if you honestly do feel
ashamed. You experinented! That's a good sense of self.

Cyber Sex

Posted by: beautyinthebreakdown. on Dec 10th, 2007 7:09pm

Cyber Sex is for sure something you have to get used to. I
used to do it all the time with this guy in Baltimore. He's
amazing. He'd even play guitar for me while we did it :]
ahh thats embarrassing!!

well

Posted by: cocoa16 on Nov 9th, 2007 12:17am

i have had phone sex be4 when i used to go out with this boy
it was long distance and it was really hard on us i just
think if u like it ok but if ur not comfortable then speak
up let him/her know

Phone Sex

Posted by: jbryant on Nov 7th, 2007 9:42am

My girlfriend and I have phone sex we are seperated. Don't
be ashamed to share this with someone...special in your
life.

Cyber Sex

Posted by: fantasy196791 on Aug 6th, 2007 11:36am

Im really sad to say i have had cyber sex before. I felt
horrible about doing it. I'm going to go to the Chat thing
on here today. Can't wait until 5!

Sadness: Response

Posted by: StacieS on Jul 23rd, 2007 12:47pm

Yes, there is a safe place to talk about this. On Monday
nights we have a Chat on Sex, Etc. with sexuality experts.
You can talk with them about how you are feeling about the
cybersex. People won't make fun of you and it is moderated,
so predators can't make advances or learn your personal
info. It is a great way to gather information and get some
feedback on issues important to you.

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