“I'm 18 and I'm not afraid to wait. Sex shouldn't be rushed and people shouldn't worry so much about what others say. Listen to yourself. What do you want?”
—Jude, 18, TX
Sex Education by Teens, for Teens!
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“I'm 18 and I'm not afraid to wait. Sex shouldn't be rushed and people shouldn't worry so much about what others say. Listen to yourself. What do you want?”
—Jude, 18, TX
What are the pros and cons of teen parenting?
There are many, many pros and cons to think about. Here is a link to an online journal that can help you come up with more pros and cons for yourself.
Here's our list of things to take into consideration:
Becoming a teen parent means giving up your youth. You will no longer be able to go out with friends whenever you feel like it. You will have to figure out how to finish school, while caring for a baby, who needs care 24/7. Your life will revolve around another little person, who depends on you to meet every need.
You’ll need money. Babies are expensive. So, you need to look at your financial situation. Do you have money? What are your job prospects? Do you want to go to college? Can you? Having a college degree would help you get a better paying job.
What kind of life do you want your child to have?
If you’re not going to college, what job skills do you have? How much money can you make in a year? Research the costs of raising a baby for the first year, then look at how much money you will make. Do you have enough money to raise a baby even for a year? Will your parents or other relatives help? Can you live rent-free, until you’re earning enough to support yourself and your baby?
Babies also change relationships between couples. They put a lot of stress on even the most solid relationships. So, you need to think about whether you can work together with your partner to raise your child.
Having a child will also affect your plans for the future. It’s tough enough to finish high school, even harder to make it to college, when you’re caring for a child. It’s not impossible, just difficult.
These are the hard parts. But, like most parents, many teen parents find great joy in raising their child. And, many are successful at eventually building a life for their family. It takes time and hard work, but it can happen.
For more information about teen parenting, check out the stories written by teen parents themselves.
I dont know
Posted by: already_a_teen_mommy on Sep 25th, 2008 12:50am
i already a teen mom having my son at the age of 16 have
seen that it has changed me for the better. i may have the
disadvantage of my education status but i am now responsible
and have quit being a party animal and stopped abusing drugs
and alcohol. i do not regret ever getting pregnant.
not all is true
Posted by: tobemommie on Mar 19th, 2008 5:58pm
if you have a good support system and you make a schedule
and work things out u dont have to give up everything. yes u
do have to cut back but not just totally lose out on ur
friends and hanging out
Agreed.
Posted by: beautyinthebreakdown. on Dec 10th, 2007 7:31pm
I Absolutely agree. I know a girl who had a baby last
september. And she couldnt be happier. But now, she's
pregnant AGAIN. Now thats crazy. I live in the country where
every girl believes in sex and parenting. And i think its
just stupid. Yeah, ive had sex. But with someone i was with
for a long time before we attempted ANY sexual intercourse.
I like this...
Posted by: mommytoele on Feb 24th, 2007 8:38am
I like this a lot. In fact, It is all true! Nicki
I think its true
Posted by: alisa12 on Sep 26th, 2008 8:24pm
Its okay to become pregant as long as you have your family
and the father behing you. I know how it feels because I
became pregant at 14 and it changed ma whole lyfe. I was
thinkin bout adoptation and aboration but after something
grows in you for so long you grow to attachment. Even though
I was young having ma daughter was the best thing I ever
did.