Originally Published: Mar 28, 2008
Revised: Mar 28, 2008
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Sometmes We Want It First
Posted by: theritegirl on Dec 14th, 2009 1:45am
Communication is the key. You both have to know when you
are ready for sex. Sometimes we are ready to have sex
before our bf is, so we just have to be open with each other
and let each other know what we want.
They're out there-
Posted by: HeWatied4ME on Oct 20th, 2009 11:45pm
Good men. Good honest men may seem like a rare breed, but
they are out there, this I promise to every pressured teen.
I have been in love with my boyfriend for three years and
even though he had sex before we met, he's waiting for me.
Please don't ever feel pressured by anyone..girls or guys.
Because he is out there.. that perfect guy that you've been
dreaming about since you were little? He's not a dream. I
promise :)
Me!
Posted by: Haley5.26.08 on Sep 21st, 2009 5:52pm
When i was jus getin out of 8th grade i was gettin in2 a
relationship with an older guy i was 13 he was 15.at first
it was a normal relationship then he started to get touchy i
didnt mind but thn it came down to him wantin to have sex n
i wasnt ready i told him tht i wasnt sure if i wanted 2 lose
my virginity 2 him or evn yet n he respected tht even tho he
would always pressure me into trying to do stuff i wouldnt n
thn 1 day we were alone and he asked if i was ready and
thats whn it happned
wow.
Posted by: .nooneknows13 on Jun 19th, 2008 8:52pm
your story is very similar to my own, when i was a freshman,
dated a 16 year old.
he tried countless times to have sex
with me, but to no avail.
i was so scared, everytime i went
over, i'd be thinking "why am i still doing this? what's
going to happen in his room where no one can help me
today?"
i'm so glad i came out of that relationship.
kudoss
:]
I TOTALLY AGREE
Posted by: i love my baby on Jun 2nd, 2008 9:21pm
if you're not ready tell them don't let nobody pressure you
into doing anything that you don't want to do... You did
good! I would have done the same.
This is good
Posted by: ToxicRainbow on Mar 29th, 2008 10:57pm
I'm sorry that happened to you. But these are some good tips
for me. I'm dating someone now and although I'm not exactly
sure what I want yet (like sometimes I think I'm totally
ready for sex and at other times I think I'm totally
not...typical indecisive teenage girl!), I know what to say!
Thanks for posting this.
i agree 100%
Posted by: baileysababy6 on Mar 29th, 2008 5:50pm
when i was talking to my guy friend on the phone (we have a
sexual relationship), he kept asking if he could "get me
from behind", and i kept saying no. so he tried everything
he could to get me to do it, but it is still, and always
will be, a no. when you know what you want, then you can
stand firmly to that, and not feel discouraged. if he
doesn't want to do stuff because he's mad that i won't do
anal, then that's his loss, not mine.
That is so true!!!
Posted by: Stephanie10 on Mar 23rd, 2010 5:52pm
I feel like as long as ya'll have an understanding of what
is beening taking place then there should not be any
miscommunication what so ever between the two of u. Going n2
the relationship communication plays a huge role
anyway..thats with anybody. But i think when you are ready
to have sex..then that time will come!!!!