Have you ever been to a party and seen the girl from your French class puking over the toilet? Or maybe you’ve watched a guy stumbling outside on the lawn with a red plastic cup in hand? If you’ve been to parties like this, then maybe you should re-consider the kinds of parties you’re attending. Getting drunk and dealing with the public humiliation is bad enough, but we all know drinking can lead to much worse: having something stolen, being sexually assaulted or getting into an accident.

Even if you do end up at parties like these, there are ways to enjoy yourself at a party without indulging in alcohol or totally losing control. Holiday parties should be safe, healthy and, most of all, fun—as in good music, great dancing and stimulating conversation.

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This holiday season, if you don’t want to be the face of embarrassment, the talk of the town or in a situation where you’re not in control of what you’re doing, follow our holiday party dos and don’ts.

DOS

• Make sure you go out with a group of people that you know well and trust.
• Refrain from drinking or using drugs.
• Have a cell phone on you with emergency contacts, just in case something goes wrong.
• Have a safe driver—someone who doesn’t drink.
• Leave a party if you begin to feel uncomfortable or unsafe.
• Have a good time

DON’TS

• Leave your drink alone; there is always a chance that someone might slip something into it.
• Drink from open containers (punch bowl) or from other people’s cups.
• Do anything that might impair your judgment; if you’re drinking or using drugs, you’re more likely to take risks with your safety.
• Be alone in a room with or go home with someone that you just met.
• Accept a drink from someone that you do not know well and trust.
• Bring valuable items out to party; you could misplace them or they could be stolen.
• Leave a party alone; make sure you have a buddy.

Maybe you’re thinking that you’ll never be in a dangerous situation, but it’s good to keep these guidelines in mind when you’re at a party. When you think ahead and play it safe, you can go out and really enjoy yourself!