“The first time I had sex is something I regret very much. Now that I think about it, I was very young and naive and irresponsible. I believe that I was under the...”
—Lee, 17, Oregon
Sex Education by Teens, for Teens!
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“The first time I had sex is something I regret very much. Now that I think about it, I was very young and naive and irresponsible. I believe that I was under the...”
—Lee, 17, Oregon
Originally Published: Nov 16, 2004
Revised: Oct 11, 2006
I remember walking into my elementary school's computer lab in fourth grade for my first-ever computer lesson in school. Before we were allowed to do anything, our teachers made sure to explain the rules, the most important being: Stick to Yahooligans!
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In other words, we were told not to look at any Web sites that we weren't supposed to. I'm not sure, exactly, what "bad things" our teachers expected us, a group of innocent, cheerful-eyed fourth graders, to look up, but it must have been serious.
Back then, if anyone—high-schoolers included—looked up inappropriate Web sites on the school computers, they'd get in major trouble. Not only would the school know about it, because it showed up on the server; the school counted how many times a particular student looked up these sites.
Going by the infamous "three strike" rule, if students were caught three times, they'd be kicked off the server entirely. They'd be banned from school computers indefinitely. Or at least that's how I remember it.
Although the rules have changed drastically in my community since then, most communities have stayed the same. Today nearly all schools use Internet filters to prevent students from looking up "bad" sites. As a result, sexual health Web sites are being lumped into the "bad site" category and vital information is being withheld from its target audience—teens.
All public secondary schools in the United States have Internet access, according to the National Center for Education Statistics (NCES), in Washington, D.C. As of 2002, 98 percent of these schools used Internet filtering software. Internet filters prevent teens from accessing certain Web sites. The filters are useful for schools, because it lets them decide what filter they will use and how powerful they want it to be.
The six most popular filters used by schools and public libraries can be set to one of three settings:
Researchers responsible for the Kaiser Family Foundation study See No Evil: How Internet Filters Affect the Search for Online Health Information called 20 U.S. school districts to find out what Internet filter settings they used. Only one school admitted to using the "least restrictive" setting; the rest were using the "intermediate" and "most restrictive" ones.
On the least restrictive setting, only one percent of all health sites are blocked; yet when set at the most restrictive level, almost 25 percent of health sites are blocked. Sexual health sites that educate teens about condoms and safer sex are hit the hardest: Nine percent are blocked at the least restrictive setting, but at the most restrictive level, approximately 50 percent are blocked.
A common misconception is that Internet filters automatically block non-pornographic health information as well as pornography, but this is not true. It is very possible for an Internet filter to successfully allow health information while still restricting visitation of sexually explicit sites. Yet, this only holds true if the filter is kept on the least restrictive setting, where most schools do not keep it, according to the See No Evil study.
Internet filtering of sexual health information is an issue especially for teens. More teens use the Internet from school than home, according to the NCES. Seventy percent of 15- to 17-year-olds go online to look up health information, according to an earlier Kaiser study. And 40 percent go online to research sexual health topics, like birth control and sexually transmitted infections.
Many teens are hesitant to ask their doctors or parents for sexual health info, so they go online to learn for themselves. For example, teen sexual health sites fill the gap for
15-year-old Christina White, of Maryland, who goes to a private school and doesn't receive comprehensive sex education.
"We don't get sex ed at all. In religion class, the teachers talk about sex a little and tell us we should wait until we're married, but that's about it," says White.
Lack of strong sex education programs in school drives many teens online for education, but this is increasingly difficult because of Internet filters.
"Teenagers, of course, are often more knowledgeable about sex than adults realize, but there's no doubt that censorship of sex education limits their ability to fill gaps in their knowledge," explains Joan Bertin, executive director of the National Coalition Against Censorship, in New York City.
What can be done? Bertin says that teens need to get educated and proactive about their high schools' use of filters. "It's important for students to notify a teacher or librarian when they find that a site is improperly blocked," she says.
From there, they can inform their school of the dangers of using filters on the most restrictive levels, whether by making administrators and parents aware of research like the See No Evil study or sharing their experiences of being blocked from sexual health sites.
Whatever we do, says Alexia Foster, 17, of New York City, the first step is to "educate people—including Internet providers—so they know the difference between health sites and pornography.
Additional reporting by Contributor Stephanie Nancy Nolasco, 17, of New York City.
My school's restrictions
Posted by: The-One-And-Only on Aug 18th, 2009 9:35pm
at my school nearly everything has been blocked out
including funbrain.com. it even interferes with our
keyboarding lessons. nearly every site i click on after a
search for anything is blocked. the teachers know and hate
it and i don't know what to do about it. are schools bound
by law to do this? thanks
My school's at max
Posted by: icantthinkofagoodusernamelol on Aug 12th, 2009 9:31pm
My school is at max restriction, and my old school was only
at intermediate!!! T_T who knew private school filters would
be worse than public school (i used to go to a public
school, now i go to a private)
So true....
Posted by: SGGriffin on Aug 12th, 2009 6:41am
It just makes me wonder how are we supposed to be healthy
sexually, and an all around balanced individual if a major
part of what teens are experiencing and worriying about is
taboo.
Not just at school...
Posted by: DaynaMarie on Jun 15th, 2009 3:45pm
...I also get this stuff blocked at home!
My family uses a
local Christian company for internet just because it's the
cheapest, but the company automatically blocks most sites
like this. It took me long enough to find this one.
I know
what it's like to need this information and not be able to
get it at school or at home.
My School
Posted by: link123 on Apr 6th, 2009 8:37pm
I know how you all feel.My School probably has a list of
un-blocked sites.Sexetc is blocked,all games, music, most
.edu sites, most pic(example:on news websites, no
pics),music, research, nearly all gameing sites(ign), and
anything useful.Not only kids are hit though.Even TEACHERS
are blocked, with only 1 change.Tearchers can get on
youtube.Kids can't.GOSH! I hate school.
ps:no shockwave
either.
the google-images cheat
Posted by: ratdude747 on Jun 1st, 2008 11:56pm
At my school, there are a lot of filters. However, some of
my peers have gotten around this by setting google images
(or any other image search engine) to "safe search-off). A
few of them got caught and were kicked off the internet for
a period ranging from afew weeks to "when gas is less than
$1.99 per gallon" (forever).
Gees
Posted by: tiggerfan on May 13th, 2008 5:48pm
My school had me use grolier online and one thing that came
up for searching crash-test dummies was sex. Of course i
didn't click it cause it would get me in in deep deep
trouble, but why have us use a site when something that
comes up is blocked?
lol
Posted by: lavikan on May 12th, 2008 4:25am
iam a black boy and since i was born never hard a gal in my
life but every time i see a gal all my minds go away i dont
know wat to do
Crazy.
Posted by: A.Wilson on Jan 11th, 2008 8:32pm
Schools want to police us and make sure we don't go to the
"bad" health sites. They won't let us know anything outside
from their "sex is bad, wait until you're married" ideals.
They give us poor information about sex and health and then
block us from learning from outside sources. If they really
want us to learn more from then, they should be less stiff
about teaching us and be open to any of our questions. They
can't protect us from everything and we'll find out about it
one way or another.
RE: My school's restrictions
Posted by: DanR on Aug 27th, 2009 12:48pm
I am not a lawyer, so I can't say for sure. Laws do vary
from area to area, so you would have to check your local
laws. As far as I know, there are no laws that exist that
say schools must filter internet content, but again,
checking out the laws in your community would be a good
place to start some research.