“Guys aren't always pursuing sex. We also enjoy the emotional connection of being in a relationship.”
—Greg, 17, Ontario
Sex Education by Teens, for Teens!
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“Guys aren't always pursuing sex. We also enjoy the emotional connection of being in a relationship.”
—Greg, 17, Ontario
Originally Published: Nov 16, 2004
Revised: Oct 11, 2006
I remember walking into my elementary school's computer lab in fourth grade for my first-ever computer lesson in school. Before we were allowed to do anything, our teachers made sure to explain the rules, the most important being: Stick to Yahooligans!
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In other words, we were told not to look at any Web sites that we weren't supposed to. I'm not sure, exactly, what "bad things" our teachers expected us, a group of innocent, cheerful-eyed fourth graders, to look up, but it must have been serious.
Back then, if anyone—high-schoolers included—looked up inappropriate Web sites on the school computers, they'd get in major trouble. Not only would the school know about it, because it showed up on the server; the school counted how many times a particular student looked up these sites.
Going by the infamous "three strike" rule, if students were caught three times, they'd be kicked off the server entirely. They'd be banned from school computers indefinitely. Or at least that's how I remember it.
Although the rules have changed drastically in my community since then, most communities have stayed the same. Today nearly all schools use Internet filters to prevent students from looking up "bad" sites. As a result, sexual health Web sites are being lumped into the "bad site" category and vital information is being withheld from its target audience—teens.
All public secondary schools in the United States have Internet access, according to the National Center for Education Statistics (NCES), in Washington, D.C. As of 2002, 98 percent of these schools used Internet filtering software. Internet filters prevent teens from accessing certain Web sites. The filters are useful for schools, because it lets them decide what filter they will use and how powerful they want it to be.
The six most popular filters used by schools and public libraries can be set to one of three settings:
Researchers responsible for the Kaiser Family Foundation study See No Evil: How Internet Filters Affect the Search for Online Health Information called 20 U.S. school districts to find out what Internet filter settings they used. Only one school admitted to using the "least restrictive" setting; the rest were using the "intermediate" and "most restrictive" ones.
On the least restrictive setting, only one percent of all health sites are blocked; yet when set at the most restrictive level, almost 25 percent of health sites are blocked. Sexual health sites that educate teens about condoms and safer sex are hit the hardest: Nine percent are blocked at the least restrictive setting, but at the most restrictive level, approximately 50 percent are blocked.
A common misconception is that Internet filters automatically block non-pornographic health information as well as pornography, but this is not true. It is very possible for an Internet filter to successfully allow health information while still restricting visitation of sexually explicit sites. Yet, this only holds true if the filter is kept on the least restrictive setting, where most schools do not keep it, according to the See No Evil study.
Internet filtering of sexual health information is an issue especially for teens. More teens use the Internet from school than home, according to the NCES. Seventy percent of 15- to 17-year-olds go online to look up health information, according to an earlier Kaiser study. And 40 percent go online to research sexual health topics, like birth control and sexually transmitted infections.
Many teens are hesitant to ask their doctors or parents for sexual health info, so they go online to learn for themselves. For example, teen sexual health sites fill the gap for
15-year-old Christina White, of Maryland, who goes to a private school and doesn't receive comprehensive sex education.
"We don't get sex ed at all. In religion class, the teachers talk about sex a little and tell us we should wait until we're married, but that's about it," says White.
Lack of strong sex education programs in school drives many teens online for education, but this is increasingly difficult because of Internet filters.
"Teenagers, of course, are often more knowledgeable about sex than adults realize, but there's no doubt that censorship of sex education limits their ability to fill gaps in their knowledge," explains Joan Bertin, executive director of the National Coalition Against Censorship, in New York City.
What can be done? Bertin says that teens need to get educated and proactive about their high schools' use of filters. "It's important for students to notify a teacher or librarian when they find that a site is improperly blocked," she says.
From there, they can inform their school of the dangers of using filters on the most restrictive levels, whether by making administrators and parents aware of research like the See No Evil study or sharing their experiences of being blocked from sexual health sites.
Whatever we do, says Alexia Foster, 17, of New York City, the first step is to "educate people—including Internet providers—so they know the difference between health sites and pornography.
Additional reporting by Contributor Stephanie Nancy Nolasco, 17, of New York City.
Gees
Posted by: tiggerfan on May 13th, 2008 5:48pm
My school had me use grolier online and one thing that came
up for searching crash-test dummies was sex. Of course i
didn't click it cause it would get me in in deep deep
trouble, but why have us use a site when something that
comes up is blocked?
lol
Posted by: lavikan on May 12th, 2008 4:25am
iam a black boy and since i was born never hard a gal in my
life but every time i see a gal all my minds go away i dont
know wat to do
Crazy.
Posted by: A.Wilson on Jan 11th, 2008 8:32pm
Schools want to police us and make sure we don't go to the
"bad" health sites. They won't let us know anything outside
from their "sex is bad, wait until you're married" ideals.
They give us poor information about sex and health and then
block us from learning from outside sources. If they really
want us to learn more from then, they should be less stiff
about teaching us and be open to any of our questions. They
can't protect us from everything and we'll find out about it
one way or another.
My schools at max restriction
Posted by: curious teen on Nov 12th, 2007 12:21pm
in my school it wont let us play games. look for pictures
for school. and some times it even blocks us from doing
research. wheni was in grade 7 i was doing a research of
something or other as a project and the first 5 pages i
found for my reasearch were blocked. these filters are
supose to help us not block are studys.
wow thats ridiculous
Posted by: zakwantsanswers on Oct 22nd, 2007 2:04am
i am going into my school library on tuesday and i am going
to go on sexetc.org and if i find out they filtered this
site than i am taking this issue to the county school board.
i am only a teen but my opinion, like any other's, Counts!
at our school..
Posted by: animaluva224 on Oct 21st, 2007 8:41am
at our school they have the filters on so high we can't get
on solitaire, wikipedia, or myspace/facebook, any type of
social networking site. i think the school actually has a
list of sites that we CAN go on pretty much and everything
else is blocked.
This never happend at my school
Posted by: Jacob NYC on Oct 19th, 2007 9:06pm
yeah, if you were caught, you would get in trouble, but
everyone knew websites that could get around the filters,
and that was that. they got away with it. no one ever got
in trouble for it.
When school starts again...
Posted by: iluvnooyawk on Jun 17th, 2007 11:15pm
I'm going to check out all the sexual health sites I know
and if they're blocked I'm going to complain! Thanks for
this article, I didn't even think of this situation
Interesting...
Posted by: the-leaky-pen on May 17th, 2007 1:27pm
I think one of the main problems with this is that people
don't really know how to approach a librarian or teacher
about this. No one wants to be the one to say, "Hey, the
school computers won't let me learn about sex!" The stigmas
about sex in general are stifling.
the google-images cheat
Posted by: ratdude747 on Jun 1st, 2008 11:56pm
At my school, there are a lot of filters. However, some of
my peers have gotten around this by setting google images
(or any other image search engine) to "safe search-off). A
few of them got caught and were kicked off the internet for
a period ranging from afew weeks to "when gas is less than
$1.99 per gallon" (forever).