Deciding about Sex

To have sex or not? It's a tough decision to make. There’s a lot to consider, like emotions, pregnancy and STDs. Read on to find out if you’re ready for sex or not.

Learning to Say "No" to Sex

By Joleen Rivera, 18, Staff Writer

For months I would spend nights crying myself to sleep. It was usually after coming home from spending the evening with a boyfriend. After saying “yes” to sex I really didn’t want or wasn’t ready for.

Joleen Rivera

Frequently Asked Questions
How do I know if I'm ready to have sex? I am 13 years old and I really want to have sex. Is it normal that a 13-year-old wants to have sex already? How do I say “No” to my partner? I think I'm ready. What should I do before I have sex?
In the Forums

Have questions or comments about knowing if you're ready for sex or not? Go to the Forums and share your thoughts!

Poll

Would you practice abstinence-until-marriage?

The Sex Mission: Part One
The Sex Mission: Part One

Martina Fugazzotto

The Sex Mission: Part One

Will Martina finally do it, or stay a virgin for-ev-er?

Resources
Here are some of the best Web sites, hotlines and books about teens’ sexual decisions.