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To have sex or not? It's a tough decision to make. There’s a lot to consider, like emotions, pregnancy and STDs. Read on to find out if you’re ready for sex or not.

An Inside Look at Teen Guys' Sex Lives

By Élan J. Jones, 18, Staff Writer

I definitely feel like a more socially aware individual after Doing It. No, I’m not talking about my sexual exploits, but rather those of Jonathan, Ben, and Dino—three teenage guys whose sexual lives are explored in vivid detail by author Melvin Burgess in his appropriately titled novel Doing It.

How do I know if I'm ready to have sex? I am 13 years old and I really want to have sex. Is it normal that a 13-year-old wants to have sex already? How do I say “No” to my partner? I think I'm ready. What should I do before I have sex?

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If you are waiting to have sex, what is your reason?

AI’m too young.
BJust not ready.
CI’m not in love.
DI’m waiting till marriage.
EMy religion.

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